PEGS is a social enterprise set up to support parents, carers and guardians who are impacted by Child to Parent Abuse. We know from lived experience that there is a real gap in provision when it comes to supporting the adults whose lives are impacted by this type of abuse – and that’s why our aim when it comes to delivering services, and training professionals, is to focus on those experiencing these abusive or violent behaviours.

We have been asked: ‘But what about the children?’

We absolutely recognise the need for specialist input when it comes to exploring why a child may be displaying this type of behaviour, and working with them to resolve any underlying issues as well as developing coping techniques and new communication methods.

But firstly, there are wonderful services out there already providing this type of input (many of whom we work alongside so that they support the child while we concentrate on the parent). And secondly, our area of expertise is the parent, so we want to channel all of our experience and knowledge into them.

If you’re looking for a support service for your child, then we’ve put together a list of just some of the wonderful organisations out there working hard to support young people. It’s also worth asking your social care team, child’s school, or other services you’re already engaged with as they may be aware of some additional services local to you.

Barnardo’s | Supporting vulnerable children, including those who have experienced abuse, and preparing young people for adulthood.

Childline | A free confidential phone line and email service for children under 19, to talk about any issue which is troubling them | Call 0800 1111.

Hope Again | Peer-led support for young people experiencing bereavement.

The Mix | Information and support on a range of issues for those aged up to 25 | Text THEMIX to 85258 in a crisis. 

NSPCC | A phone line for adults to discuss any concerns they have about a child (under 18s should call Childline) | Call 0808 800 5000.

OKRehab | Guidance and support on substance misuse and co-occurring mental health problems | 0800 326 5559.

Papyrus | Focused on the prevention of suicide among young people aged under 35 | Call the Hopeline on 0800 068 4141.

Runaway Helpline | For those who are thinking of leaving home, or who already have | Text 116 000.

Talk to Frank | Honest information about drugs | Text 82111.

Winston’s Wish | Charity which supports children after the death of a parent or sibling | Call 08088 020 021 for information about how they can help.

Young Minds | Supporting children and young people with their mental health.

In an emergency, always call 999. Or if there’s a non-emergency situation which requires police input, call 101.